Whoever came up with the idea of Promise Day must have been really creative. We expect a lot from our beloved and keep seeking promises from them – promise to love us, care for us, be honest, and what not? Isn’t it a good idea to make some creative promises to your beloved to make them feel special and spice up your relationship this Promise Day? Here are some creative Promise Day pledges for your beloved.
“To live is the rarest thing in the world. Most people exist, that is all.”Oscar Wilde
1. Meet Regularly
At times, we often get so caught up with our work that we hardly find time to meet our beloved and at times it is just pure procrastination. We do not feel like leaving home on a weekend or have other commitments. This leads to days without seeing one another and often creates a gap in the relationship which makes it weaker.
2. Make Each Other Your Priority
We are quite into each other when the relationship is new however after a certain point love takes a back seat. Our work, family, and friends often come between us. Due to all these commitments, we begin to ignore or overlook the needs of our beloved as managing everything together seems like big task to us. This often leads to arguments and fights. This Promise day pledge to make each other your priority and see how things work for the better.
3. Plan Unusual Dates
We all go on the usual dinner and movie dates. To add excitement and thrill to your relationship, it is suggested to go on unusual dates. Go rock climbing or gaming or paintballing or for any other unusual date experience. Indulging in such activities together will help you explore each other’s interests and give the much-needed stimulation. This Promise Day, why not pledge to go on unusual dates every once in a while so as to keep the fun alive?
4. Speak Your Heart Out
Many relationships go sour because we aren’t able to convey our thoughts and feelings to our partners at the right time. We usually turn cold if there is something that we don’t like about them. This is wrong. Staying silent and suppressing your feelings can ruin your relationship. A healthy relationship is one where the partners communicate with each other and pour their hearts out in front of one another. This strengthens the relationship and deepens the bond. It is time to pledge that you will share all your feelings with your partner and not punish him/ her by giving them the silent treatment.
5. Make Each Other Feel Special
Everyone likes being pampered. It is a great feeling when your beloved pampers you and makes you feel special. While we go out of our way to make our partners feel special during the first few months of the relationship however gradually we start taking each other for granted. We begin to feel that our beloved is there for us whether or not we give them special attention so we avoid making any special effort. It is to be understood that some amount of pampering is needed to maintain a healthy dynamic with your partner and keep that spark alive. So, why not pledge to do something to make your partner feel special this Promise day?